2015年3月26日 星期四

(101) 成语 idiom : 良 师 益 友 good mentors @friends

成语 idiom :
   良     师     益     友
liáng   shī    yì    yǒu Good mentor and friend

出处 source :汉·刘向《说苑·说丛》
意思 meaning :
有教益和给予帮助的好老师和好朋友。
The good teachers and good friends who can give beneficial instruction and help.
劝告 advice :
今天,有些父母都会认为孩子学业不好是补习老师的问题,所以孩子就不会尊敬他们的补习老师。
Today, some parents think that children are not good in academy due to tutor's problems, so the children would not  respect thier tutor.
其实,补习老师会尽力找出孩子的弱点,然后再逐一把这些弱点改善 ……所以要让孩子知道补习老师也是他们的良师益友。
In fact, the tutors will try to find the child's weaknesses, and then will improve these weaknesses one by one ......so should let the children know that tutors are their good mentors and friends too.
在这个网络的时代,资讯爆满,孩子随时都很容易受负面的资讯和其他品行恶劣的学生影响啊!
In this era of network, information is packed, the children are anytime susceptible to negative information and affected by other bad behavior of students !
被这些因素影响而父母又不好好管教,孩子就会变得更精于骗话满街是…… 甚至有些孩子还会侮辱、暗算、威胁、欺负……但是自得其乐,啧称自喜 !
Parents do not instruct their child well which is affected by these factors, the child will become more proficient in telling lies of full streets...... even some children will insult, plot, threats, bullying ......but enjoy oneself,   himself or herself though that with fun!
这类孩子在学习方面也会提不起劲,觉得学习是种烦闷的事!!!
Such kind of children will not whistle in learning,  feel that is kind of boring to learn something! ! !
身为老师看见学生的恶劣品行,又怎么会袖手旁观满骗父母呢 ?
As a teacher saw the worst behavior of the student, how can stand with full cheat to parents?

无论是学校老师、补习老师或同事 ……
没有Z针对任何族及宗教,只要能教和引导您或您的孩子朝向好的人就是良师益友 !
Whether it is the school teacher, tutor or colleague ......has no limitation in races and religions as long as they teach and guide you or your child towards good is a good mentor!

在工作时能指导我们的也良师益友 ;能给我们正面劝告的也是良师益友。
At work, who can guide us; give us positive advice is also a good mentor.
所谓 :忠言逆耳——出自良师益友忠实的劝告听起来不舒服,但是不听将会是自己的损失。
The so-called: faithful words grate upon the ears - advice from a mentor's faithful sound is uncomfortable ( unpleasant to hear ), but it will be own loss if don't listen to.
有机会多接触良师益友对自己并没有任何损失,何乐而不为呢 ?
There is no loss when have the opportunity to have more contacts with the good mentor for own, why are not glad to do this ?
同学之间都要互相爱护和尊敬,更何况是孩子的良师 !
Among the students must love and respect each other , as well as to the child's mentor!
父母应该让自己孩子成为尊敬良师益友的人,因为良师益友的人能引导您孩子走向光明大道 !!!
Parents should let their children become a person that respects to the good mentors and friends because of a good mentor or friend who can guide your child towards a bright road !!!
切记 remember :
要教会孩子多接触良师益友,远离损友!!!
To teach children to have more contacts with the good mentor and friends, keep  away from those bad friends
……别让损友荼毒孩子的思想,因为损友会颠倒是非和真理……将影响了孩子将来的生活习惯、对人对事的态度、个人的道德价值观......等等。
...... do not let the bad friends poison your children's thoughts, because bad friends will distort what is right and wrong and the truth..... will affect the child's future life...... habits, attitudes to people and events, individual's moral values ​​and so on .

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