为何要四周的人迁就我们的孩子 ？
Why do surrounding people want to accommodate our children?
这样孩子会习以为常，渐渐地孩子就会养成了霸道任性的性格，不懂尊敬人，失去与人协调的技能 ！
So that the child will become accustomed to, the child will gradually develop a wayward overbearing ( bossy) personality, do not respect people, lose the skills of coordination with people !
So that the child will become accustomed to, the child will gradually develop a wayward overbearing ( bossy) personality, do not respect people, lose the skills of coordination with people !
适当的迁就孩子是正面的，过于迁就孩子是负面的 ……
Suitable to accommodate a child is positive, too much accommodating children is negative......
Suitable to accommodate a child is positive, too much accommodating children is negative......
例子 example :
（一），如 : 孩子不断吵吵闹闹要冰块放入饮料，可以限定冰块的数量……这样就不会激起孩子逆行的行为 。
( 1 ), such as: kids constantly make noisy want to put ice cubes into the drink, you can limit the number of ice cubes ……so this may not arouse children's retrograde behavior.
( 1 ), such as: kids constantly make noisy want to put ice cubes into the drink, you can limit the number of ice cubes ……so this may not arouse children's retrograde behavior.
这样的迁就是适当的 ！……还能逐步把孩子逆行的行为转变为顺行的行为 。
Such a yield is appropriate! ...... Can gradually bring the child into the behavior of antegrade behavior from the retrograde behavior.
Such a yield is appropriate! ...... Can gradually bring the child into the behavior of antegrade behavior from the retrograde behavior.
（二），如 : 叫长辈让座给一个已懂事的孩子 ……这样的迁就是负面的 ！
( 2 ), such as: call elder to give seat to an already sensible child ...... Such yield is negative!
( 2 ), such as: call elder to give seat to an already sensible child ...... Such yield is negative!
这类的疼爱是害孩子的！！！
This kind of love is detrimental to a child! ! !
This kind of love is detrimental to a child! ! !
（除非孩子生病或在特别的情况才需要长辈让座 。）
( unless the child is ill or in a special situation needs the elder's seat.)
( unless the child is ill or in a special situation needs the elder's seat.)
与其叫长辈让座给孩子，不如引导孩子尊敬长辈尊重自己 ！
Called elder to give his or her seat to the child, it is better to guide the child to respect their elders and respect himself or herself !
Called elder to give his or her seat to the child, it is better to guide the child to respect their elders and respect himself or herself !
（三），孩子不愿做功课，却想要游戏 ……可以灌输孩子先苦后甜的观念，先在指定的时间内完成功课才游戏 ！
( 3 ) Children do not want to do homework, but want to play ...... can instill children first to take bitter then enjoy sweet, first to complete the homework within a specified period of time before the game !
( 3 ) Children do not want to do homework, but want to play ...... can instill children first to take bitter then enjoy sweet, first to complete the homework within a specified period of time before the game !
（四），如发现孩子有第一次偷窃的行为，偷了或拿错同学的东西，一定要赶快斩断孩子的贪念 ……就是把偷来的或拿错的东西归还给人。
If that child has a first act of theft, stealing or take the wrong things, st
must quickly cut off the child's greed ......return the stolen things or the mistaken things back to people.
If that child has a first act of theft, stealing or take the wrong things, st
must quickly cut off the child's greed ......return the stolen things or the mistaken things back to people.
如有东西破损，除了赔赏，要孩子亲自道歉，及灌输孩子尊敬他人的财物 ！
If something is damaged, in addition to pay the damages, want the child personally to apologize, and instill the child to respect the property of others!
If something is damaged, in addition to pay the damages, want the child personally to apologize, and instill the child to respect the property of others!
生词 vocabulary :
迁( qiān ) 就( jiù )：迁就 accommodate
霸( bà ) 道( dào ) : 霸道 overbearing ( bossy
任( rèn ) 性( xìng ) : 任性 wayward
行( xíng ) ：
行( xíng )为( wéi ) : 行为 behaviour
逆（nì )行( xíng ) ： 逆行 retrograde
顺( shùn ) 行( xíng ) ： 顺行 antegrade
行( xíng )为( wéi ) : 行为 behaviour
逆（nì )行( xíng ) ： 逆行 retrograde
顺( shùn ) 行( xíng ) ： 顺行 antegrade
（ can be used as ： 行( xíng )走 ( zǒu ) : 行走 walk
银( yín ) 行( háng ) ： 银行 bank
旅 ( lǚ ) 行 ( xíng）：旅行 travel
银( yín ) 行( háng ) ： 银行 bank
旅 ( lǚ ) 行 ( xíng）：旅行 travel
协( xié ) 调 ( tiáo )： 协调 coordination
习( xí ) 以( yǐ )为( wéi )常 ( cháng ) ： 习以为常 accustomed
===》习( xí ) 惯 ( guàn ) ：习惯
===》习( xí ) 惯 ( guàn ) ：习惯
尊 ( zūn ) 敬 ( jīng ) ： 尊敬 respect
长 ( zhǎng ) 辈 ( bèi ) ： 长辈 elders
逐 ( zhú ) 步 ( bù ) = 渐渐地 gradually
灌 ( guàn ) 输 ( shǖ ) : 灌输 instil / imbue
让 ( ràng ) 座 ( zuò ) ： 让座 give seat
破 ( pò )损 ( sǔn ) ：破损 damages
赔 ( péi )赏 ( shǎng ) ： 赔赏 pay to the damages
财( cái ) 物 ( wù ) : 财物 property
变 ( biàn ) ：转 ( zhuǎn ) 变 ( biàn ) / 改 ( gǎi ) 变 ( biàn )
转变 / 改变 ： changes
转变 / 改变 ： changes
亲 ( qīn ) 自 ( zì ) ： 亲自 personally
道 （dào ) 歉 ( qiàn ) ； 道歉 apologize
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